God always fulfills His promises. Always.
Remember that, even if it's hard to be content, and hard to go through the many struggles we go through in life, there is always a rainbow after the flood if we follow Him.
I just had one of the best days of my life. =)
Sunday, September 18, 2011
Thursday, September 8, 2011
Waiting Part 2: Rather Random Thoughts
"You pierce my soul. I am half agony, half hope. Tell me not that I am too late, that such precious feelings are gone for ever. I offer myself to you again with a heart even more your own than when you almost broke it, eight and a half years ago. Dare not say that a man forgets sooner than woman, that his love has an earlier death. I have loved none but you. Unjust I may have been, weak and resentful I have been, but never inconstant."--Persuasion
Jane Austen knew the virtues of waiting. Her main characters are always in some state of waiting for happiness.
Too often, we become discontent in our waiting because of comparisons. If someone asks you when you're going to finish school, or when you're going to have a boyfriend, or when you will be done with so and so, it is usually very frustrating. I think we get frustrated by these questions because we assume they are judging us. We assume they are saying "Why don't you have a diploma on your wall yet? I do, look at mine!" When in reality, they usually just care about you and want to know what you've been up to. That's when you look them full in the face and say "I sure am working on it!" :)
"Love suffers long and is kind." Notice that the suffering part is linked to kindness. It's not ok to be mean to others just because you are going through a drain pipe.
The best things in life really are worth waiting for...it's not just a little cleshay phrase. But waiting means fighting, not just waiting.
If only time could pass us by...
Sometimes it feels like the main thing we do in life is wait.
As kids we wait to grow up, in school we wait to graduate, as adults we wait to buy houses, start families, and have the career we think we want.
Waiting isn't a bad thing, and it definitely teaches us many good life lessons. There is a pitfall, however, that can come with obsessing over waiting. If all we think about is what is yet to come, then we are missing out on bright amazing parts of our lives. Abraham waited hopefully, in a good way:
"When God made his promise to Abraham, since there was no one greater for him to swear by, he swore by himself, 14 saying, “I will surely bless you and give you many descendants.”[d] 15 And so after waiting patiently, Abraham received what was promised." --Hebrews 6:13-15
Here, God Himself swore that he would give Abraham children. Abraham had a hard time waiting, his wife Sarah certainly did too, but in the end the Word of God says that Abraham waited paitently. If waiting was easy, God wouldn't use it to refine us. There's nothing wrong in admitting that waiting for something good is one of the hardest things you will ever do. Abraham tried different ways to get an heir. Sarah laughed when she heard about bearing a child, but still, their faith and trust in God is a beautiful example to us all. Abraham didn't waste those years waiting for Isaac. He built up an inheritance for him.
Instead of focusing on waiting, I think we should be preparing ourselves to receive God's promises. This means delighting in our time now, while preparing for the future. After all, there will always be things worth waiting for, but the present is here today and gone tomorrow.
As kids we wait to grow up, in school we wait to graduate, as adults we wait to buy houses, start families, and have the career we think we want.
Waiting isn't a bad thing, and it definitely teaches us many good life lessons. There is a pitfall, however, that can come with obsessing over waiting. If all we think about is what is yet to come, then we are missing out on bright amazing parts of our lives. Abraham waited hopefully, in a good way:
"When God made his promise to Abraham, since there was no one greater for him to swear by, he swore by himself, 14 saying, “I will surely bless you and give you many descendants.”[d] 15 And so after waiting patiently, Abraham received what was promised." --Hebrews 6:13-15
Here, God Himself swore that he would give Abraham children. Abraham had a hard time waiting, his wife Sarah certainly did too, but in the end the Word of God says that Abraham waited paitently. If waiting was easy, God wouldn't use it to refine us. There's nothing wrong in admitting that waiting for something good is one of the hardest things you will ever do. Abraham tried different ways to get an heir. Sarah laughed when she heard about bearing a child, but still, their faith and trust in God is a beautiful example to us all. Abraham didn't waste those years waiting for Isaac. He built up an inheritance for him.
Instead of focusing on waiting, I think we should be preparing ourselves to receive God's promises. This means delighting in our time now, while preparing for the future. After all, there will always be things worth waiting for, but the present is here today and gone tomorrow.
Sunday, July 31, 2011
There is a friend...
Last term in school I took a "religion" class on Friendship. In it I learned that people have different views of what and why they have friendships. Aristotle describes three types of friendships:
1. Friendships of utility
2. Friendships of pleasure
3. Friendships of virtue
Number one describes a friend you have only for the connections or what you can get out of them.
Number two describes lovers, loving someone because it feels good to you.
Number three speaks of being friends with someone who has common goals.
"Iron sharpening iron."--Proverbs 27
While there are different levels of friendships, I think the Bible gives us what the main point of any friendship should be:
Friendships aren't what you can get out of it, but what you can give. If you're looking to make friends, become someone's friend.
A true friend helps each other. Helping doesn't mean you lie for them or look over all their sins. It means you encourage each other to be righteous.
What if your friend harms you? Or stops being your friend? Friendships are often up and down. I've heard it said that you have only two options: either growing closer or falling apart. God wants us to give up all our friendships to Him. If we're relying on our friends for everything (a comforting ear, a meal, etc.) instead of Christ then our friendships are doomed. The only thing in life that is certain is God, not your best friend you had when you were six.
On the flip side, friendship is a precious ointment and a safeguard against evil. Surround yourself with good friends and you will grow spiritually. Just remember, friendships are the Lord's. He may break them to recreate them, or to let someone be another person's friend. Sometimes all you can do is pray, but that is what friendship is, it never stops hoping.
1. Friendships of utility
2. Friendships of pleasure
3. Friendships of virtue
Number one describes a friend you have only for the connections or what you can get out of them.
Number two describes lovers, loving someone because it feels good to you.
Number three speaks of being friends with someone who has common goals.
"Iron sharpening iron."--Proverbs 27
While there are different levels of friendships, I think the Bible gives us what the main point of any friendship should be:
Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends if you do what I command. I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master's business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you.(John 15:13-15).
Friendships aren't what you can get out of it, but what you can give. If you're looking to make friends, become someone's friend.
A true friend helps each other. Helping doesn't mean you lie for them or look over all their sins. It means you encourage each other to be righteous.
What if your friend harms you? Or stops being your friend? Friendships are often up and down. I've heard it said that you have only two options: either growing closer or falling apart. God wants us to give up all our friendships to Him. If we're relying on our friends for everything (a comforting ear, a meal, etc.) instead of Christ then our friendships are doomed. The only thing in life that is certain is God, not your best friend you had when you were six.
On the flip side, friendship is a precious ointment and a safeguard against evil. Surround yourself with good friends and you will grow spiritually. Just remember, friendships are the Lord's. He may break them to recreate them, or to let someone be another person's friend. Sometimes all you can do is pray, but that is what friendship is, it never stops hoping.
Saturday, June 18, 2011
Timing Part 1
It is often stated that "timing is everything."
I used to think timing was bogus. If you were going to love someone, then love them. God made you to love them, so why can't you love them right now?
It is our wise Father, however, who controls not just who we love, but when our love can be fulfilled.
I think many teenagers get confused about it. If you are told not to date when you are younger, or not to talk to the other sex, then you may grow up thinking you can never do that. Then, when we finally find ourselves in our twenties, we don't know what to do with ourselves. Or, we think that our liking someone when we were a teenager was somehow wrong. We are hardwired to care for someone special, it's the timing that is the issue.
It is a glorious thing to have even our timing ordered by the hand of the Creator.
"Do not stir up nor awaken love till it pleases."--The Song of Songs
I used to think timing was bogus. If you were going to love someone, then love them. God made you to love them, so why can't you love them right now?
It is our wise Father, however, who controls not just who we love, but when our love can be fulfilled.
I think many teenagers get confused about it. If you are told not to date when you are younger, or not to talk to the other sex, then you may grow up thinking you can never do that. Then, when we finally find ourselves in our twenties, we don't know what to do with ourselves. Or, we think that our liking someone when we were a teenager was somehow wrong. We are hardwired to care for someone special, it's the timing that is the issue.
It is a glorious thing to have even our timing ordered by the hand of the Creator.
"Do not stir up nor awaken love till it pleases."--The Song of Songs
Monday, May 30, 2011
The Explosive Combinations
Comparisons vs. Combinations
Comparisons happen all the time. Sometimes I think we are unconciously raised to compare ourselves to everyone around us. Everything is a challenge that must be won.
It's impossible to be truly good friends with someone, however, if you are constantly jealous of them or trying to outdo them. It is also hard to be friends if you think only your way is the right way and everything they do is ridiculous. As we shall see, not everyone has the same gifts given to them by God. This means not everyone will have the same calling or go about things the same way you do.
I have been thinking about 1st Corinthians. The book speaks about fellowship in the body of Christ a lot!
How do we get along with one another if we are constantly comparing ourselves to each other?
Paul says "Are all apostles? Are all prophets? Are all teachers? Are all workers of miracles? 30 Do all have gifts of healings? Do all speak with tongues? Do all interpret? 31 But earnestly desire the best gifts. And yet I show you a more excellent way." (12:29-31)
If our own individual gifts are not what matter the most, what does? What is the more excellent way?
When I was younger, I memorized the next verses. I memorized them thinking that the passage describing love was about "being in love." If I wanted to have a good marriage, I needed to be kind, suffer long, not behave rudely to my husband, etc. I think you do need those things for a good marriage, but I now realize that Paul was talking to the entire church of Corinth. He was telling friends (and maybe people who don't get along so well) to suffer long in love for each other. To bear all things, believe all things, hope all things, endure all things. Not to endure things for the sake of being in love, like Romeo and Juliet, but to proclaim what love really is. Love is not seeking its own, but is being transformed by Christ's love to serve others.
If I am going to love His body, I am going to have to swallow my pride and admit my way is not the standard for all living: His way is. You can assume all you want about people, and talk about it behind their backs, but when you actually talk to them about it, you may realize they are trying to serve Him the only way they know how. And isn't that a blessing to the Church? Afterall, we are to desire the good gifts, which means desiring people to have gifts that are different than yours, but not any less inferior. So thank God for our differences. For not only would this Earth be an incredibly boring place if we were all the same, but it is through our combined strengths that we shall rebuild this world.
Comparisons happen all the time. Sometimes I think we are unconciously raised to compare ourselves to everyone around us. Everything is a challenge that must be won.
It's impossible to be truly good friends with someone, however, if you are constantly jealous of them or trying to outdo them. It is also hard to be friends if you think only your way is the right way and everything they do is ridiculous. As we shall see, not everyone has the same gifts given to them by God. This means not everyone will have the same calling or go about things the same way you do.
I have been thinking about 1st Corinthians. The book speaks about fellowship in the body of Christ a lot!
How do we get along with one another if we are constantly comparing ourselves to each other?
Paul says "Are all apostles? Are all prophets? Are all teachers? Are all workers of miracles? 30 Do all have gifts of healings? Do all speak with tongues? Do all interpret? 31 But earnestly desire the best gifts. And yet I show you a more excellent way." (12:29-31)
If our own individual gifts are not what matter the most, what does? What is the more excellent way?
When I was younger, I memorized the next verses. I memorized them thinking that the passage describing love was about "being in love." If I wanted to have a good marriage, I needed to be kind, suffer long, not behave rudely to my husband, etc. I think you do need those things for a good marriage, but I now realize that Paul was talking to the entire church of Corinth. He was telling friends (and maybe people who don't get along so well) to suffer long in love for each other. To bear all things, believe all things, hope all things, endure all things. Not to endure things for the sake of being in love, like Romeo and Juliet, but to proclaim what love really is. Love is not seeking its own, but is being transformed by Christ's love to serve others.
If I am going to love His body, I am going to have to swallow my pride and admit my way is not the standard for all living: His way is. You can assume all you want about people, and talk about it behind their backs, but when you actually talk to them about it, you may realize they are trying to serve Him the only way they know how. And isn't that a blessing to the Church? Afterall, we are to desire the good gifts, which means desiring people to have gifts that are different than yours, but not any less inferior. So thank God for our differences. For not only would this Earth be an incredibly boring place if we were all the same, but it is through our combined strengths that we shall rebuild this world.
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
Random Motivating Thoughts
I've been thinking lately, which is typically a good thing.
My Pastor always says that everyone goes through a time of discouragement and darkness in their lives.
For myself, I know I get discouraged or frustrated at God sometimes. I wonder why things are happening the way they do. David seemed to do this a lot in the Psalms. "How long, oh Lord...."
Even though I get down sometimes, I was born and taught to be a very optimistic person. I can't stay in the depths for long. My biggest enemy is passiveness. Sometimes I just don't want to do anything. Once I begin something for someone else I try to do it with my best abilities. If I'm doing something for someone else I take it very seriously. Why then, do I have such a hard time doing things for myself? Especially finishing things. I believe it is my mindset that is the problem.
I am not doing all these little things for myself. I am doing them for Christ and through the Spirit.
God is the one who I do it for, and He is also the one who helps me succeed. He has empowered me to change the world for Him. Why should I get caught up in petty arguments in my head about who I am doing what for? Oh pride, how I loathe thee!
My Pastor always says that everyone goes through a time of discouragement and darkness in their lives.
For myself, I know I get discouraged or frustrated at God sometimes. I wonder why things are happening the way they do. David seemed to do this a lot in the Psalms. "How long, oh Lord...."
Even though I get down sometimes, I was born and taught to be a very optimistic person. I can't stay in the depths for long. My biggest enemy is passiveness. Sometimes I just don't want to do anything. Once I begin something for someone else I try to do it with my best abilities. If I'm doing something for someone else I take it very seriously. Why then, do I have such a hard time doing things for myself? Especially finishing things. I believe it is my mindset that is the problem.
I am not doing all these little things for myself. I am doing them for Christ and through the Spirit.
God is the one who I do it for, and He is also the one who helps me succeed. He has empowered me to change the world for Him. Why should I get caught up in petty arguments in my head about who I am doing what for? Oh pride, how I loathe thee!
Saturday, April 23, 2011
He Saved Others
Good Friday, 1987
Jesus, You know I do not understand
Your love, Your sacraments, Your sufferings,
Your grace exalting me with priests and kings
Reigning forever in the Promised Land.
I am a child who takes his father’s hand
Walking along the beach, who while he clings
Fears not the surf, but begs a tale that brings
Him dreams of sailing far beyond the strand.
O tell me once again and I’ll receive
The things I cannot know and count them true:
How if I were the only man to grieve
The heart of God, You’d take Your cross anew
(I do not understand, but I believe)
Quite a few years ago, when I was in my teens and going through a poetry phase, I was able to purchase a book of sonnets. It was sold by James Jordan, an amazing Pastor and scholar, and written by a man named Philip Rosenbaum. Every year I try to read through my Holy Week Sonnets. They have been such an encouragement to me. Check out http://christianpoet.org/Poetry_of_Philip_Rosenbaum/Home.html to read more of them.
Good Friday is indeed a good day. It was also the worst day in the life of our Savior. Today I was meditating on what our Lord went through. When I read Mark 15, this part stuck out to me:
"Likewise the chief priests also, mocking among themselves with the scribes, said,
'He saved others; Himself He cannot save.'" (vs. 31)
What's funny about this passage is, even though the pharisees and scribes were mocking Jesus, what they said was true. Jesus did save others. He saved His chosen people, and He was in the process of saving others while He was on the cross. He could not save His loved ones if He only cared about saving Himself. Christ is the epitomy of unselfishness. He couldn't save Himself even if He wanted to, because He had put His life in His Father's hands: "Thy will be done!"
Isn't this how God created life to work? The only way we can save ourselves is by saving other people.
It is a beautifully strange truth. "Lose your life, and you will find it..."
=) Happy Good Friday!
To die for me, that I might live for You.
--Philip Rosenbaum
Quite a few years ago, when I was in my teens and going through a poetry phase, I was able to purchase a book of sonnets. It was sold by James Jordan, an amazing Pastor and scholar, and written by a man named Philip Rosenbaum. Every year I try to read through my Holy Week Sonnets. They have been such an encouragement to me. Check out http://christianpoet.org/Poetry_of_Philip_Rosenbaum/Home.html to read more of them.
Good Friday is indeed a good day. It was also the worst day in the life of our Savior. Today I was meditating on what our Lord went through. When I read Mark 15, this part stuck out to me:
"Likewise the chief priests also, mocking among themselves with the scribes, said,
'He saved others; Himself He cannot save.'" (vs. 31)
What's funny about this passage is, even though the pharisees and scribes were mocking Jesus, what they said was true. Jesus did save others. He saved His chosen people, and He was in the process of saving others while He was on the cross. He could not save His loved ones if He only cared about saving Himself. Christ is the epitomy of unselfishness. He couldn't save Himself even if He wanted to, because He had put His life in His Father's hands: "Thy will be done!"
Isn't this how God created life to work? The only way we can save ourselves is by saving other people.
It is a beautifully strange truth. "Lose your life, and you will find it..."
=) Happy Good Friday!
Friday, April 1, 2011
How Could It Be Any Better Than This?
What do I have to do
To try to make you see
Trying to be like you
Isn’t good enough for me
I wont let you go
I wont let you down
I wont give you up
Don’t you give up on me now
To try to make you see
Trying to be like you
Isn’t good enough for me
I wont let you go
I wont let you down
I wont give you up
Don’t you give up on me now
Some people wonder why Lifehouse is my favorite band. Lifehouse's lyrics make me think, and their music always matches their lyrics. It's not thinking just in a logical mental state, but also in a relational way. Their music makes you think about relationships from the inside and the outside. God is logical and emotional. Indeed, He is much more than that. I think it's hard for us to be both at the same moment. I might be logical one minute and super crazy the next. God's world, however, is beautiful and complex all at the same time. Researching where Jason Wade (lead singer and song writer for LH) came from puts much more meaning into each of his songs. His songs are his reactions and ideas revolving around his most important relationships. Indeed, they tell the story of his life in an abstract way. I think a good composer is able to tell a story with their songs. Jason's stories have been some of the best encouragements to me, and that is why I will always be thankful for Lifehouse.
Jason's parents were missionaries when he was younger. It wasn't till their divorce, which really affected him, that he turned to poetry and music for support. He lived in Portland, then moved to Washington, then finally to Los Angeles. It was in LA where he met his bass player Sergio and started a worship band called Blyss. Blyss eventually evolved to Lifehouse, with Rick playing the drums. Over the years Lifehouse has changed. The band had a breakup with Sergio. Rick, however, is still there rockin' and being as goofy as ever. Bryce, awesome Canadian bass player, joined the team, and their latest member is Ben, who is a great Australian guitarist, mate!
No Name Face was their first CD, and it was a huge success. The songs off that album are really straight from Jason's soul, expressing his frustrations and his faith in God. Jason writes music hoping others will be able to relate to it and be encouraged. He doesn't write music to force ideas down someone's throat. It used to bug me that he wouldn't talk more about God, till I realized the impact his family's breaking up had on him. Still, his songs all have incredible messages, and I think that is how he communicates his worldview the best.
Lifehouse's definition of Love is interesting. Some of the main themes running through their songs are:
Holding on, not giving up
Changing for the relationship
Believing in second chances
Jason has been married to his wife Braeden for ten years. He says that they try not to be apart for more than two weeks at a time, which is tricky since Jason is on the road most of the time. He brought her on his last tour, and he says they are childhood sweethearts, best friends, and still madly in love. Now they're thinking about having kids. :)
As for Lifehouse, currently they have 5 CDs released, and are still touring around.
I've seen them three times in concert. Amazing every time. Did I mention I have their autographs, pictures, posters, shirts, and have talked to them?
I'm not obsessed, just in love.
Jason and Braedon
My pic at their last concert
Wednesday, March 30, 2011
Arise Sleeper
So the captain came to him, and said to him, "What do you mean, sleeper? Arise, call on your God; perhaps your God will consider us, so that we may not perish." Jonah 1:6
I was struck by this verse a couple days ago when I read it and I can't get it out of my head.
It got me thinking, have I been sleeping in my tasks, or have I risen up?
If I am completing a task without thanking God or beseeching His help, am I acting asleep?
When I forget to call on God in my hardships, it is as if I was asleep.
If you structure this verse it could become:
What do you mean, sleeper?
Arise,
Call on your God
Perhaps your God
Will consider us
So that we may not perish
Chiastically structering the verse this way shows that the first half is what we are to do, and the second half is God's response. Return to the Lord, and He will return unto you it says in Zechariah.
It also shows it is completely out of our control. God may just consider us. Or He may not.
Sleeper is tied to perish. Arise with consider and call with perhaps.
Oh, Lord, may we pray to You each day. Hear us, Lord.
I was struck by this verse a couple days ago when I read it and I can't get it out of my head.
It got me thinking, have I been sleeping in my tasks, or have I risen up?
If I am completing a task without thanking God or beseeching His help, am I acting asleep?
When I forget to call on God in my hardships, it is as if I was asleep.
If you structure this verse it could become:
What do you mean, sleeper?
Arise,
Call on your God
Perhaps your God
Will consider us
So that we may not perish
Chiastically structering the verse this way shows that the first half is what we are to do, and the second half is God's response. Return to the Lord, and He will return unto you it says in Zechariah.
It also shows it is completely out of our control. God may just consider us. Or He may not.
Sleeper is tied to perish. Arise with consider and call with perhaps.
Oh, Lord, may we pray to You each day. Hear us, Lord.
Saturday, March 26, 2011
Remember your Creator in the days of your youth
I was thinking about birthdays this week. I'm the type of person who doesn't think three different parties is extravagant.
Especially if you had a: 1. Family party 2. Friends party 3. BFF party
(all parties with different people)
Afterall, a birthday is a real reason to celebrate each year. Not everyone can party all the time, nor should they. I am of the opinion that everyone should celebrate their birthday each year. Here are some reasons why:
1. Getting older is a blessing from God. Our culture is so obsessed with staying young that sometimes people gripe and complain about another year being gone. Complaining about our age is like complaining that God made us and sustains us. Celebrating your birthday can help you delight in the present time and make you thankful.
2. Celebrating birthdays promotes community. One of the best reasons to get together is to celebrate your loved ones birthdays. We have so many people in our family, we almost celebrate a birthday every month now! It's great!
3. Celebrating a birthday isn't just about the birthday person. It is, however, a good opportunity to let your birthday friend know how much you love them. When it's my own birthday, I try to bless others through my parties. Dispite what some people say, having a birthday doesn't mean you get to do whatever the heck you want. It also doesn't give you permission to go out and get smashed. You also shouldn't expect presents. Afterall, you wouldn't be born if it wasn't for your parents. Maybe you should give them a present on your birthday. ;)
So go out there and party!!!!
Especially if you had a: 1. Family party 2. Friends party 3. BFF party
(all parties with different people)
Afterall, a birthday is a real reason to celebrate each year. Not everyone can party all the time, nor should they. I am of the opinion that everyone should celebrate their birthday each year. Here are some reasons why:
1. Getting older is a blessing from God. Our culture is so obsessed with staying young that sometimes people gripe and complain about another year being gone. Complaining about our age is like complaining that God made us and sustains us. Celebrating your birthday can help you delight in the present time and make you thankful.
2. Celebrating birthdays promotes community. One of the best reasons to get together is to celebrate your loved ones birthdays. We have so many people in our family, we almost celebrate a birthday every month now! It's great!
3. Celebrating a birthday isn't just about the birthday person. It is, however, a good opportunity to let your birthday friend know how much you love them. When it's my own birthday, I try to bless others through my parties. Dispite what some people say, having a birthday doesn't mean you get to do whatever the heck you want. It also doesn't give you permission to go out and get smashed. You also shouldn't expect presents. Afterall, you wouldn't be born if it wasn't for your parents. Maybe you should give them a present on your birthday. ;)
So go out there and party!!!!
Sunday, March 6, 2011
Women and Thorns
Postmodern Ethics
I just spent the last few days finishing a paper for school. This paper was for an Ethics class I am required to take. Unfortunately, the things I have learned in that class scare me.
What I learned is that Post-modernism is evolving. It used to be, only a couple years ago when I first started school that the humanistic books I had to read still believed in the innate goodness of man. In my recent ethics class, I’ve discovered that no longer can we condemn Hitler for his crimes against humanity. Before there was an “every belief is equal as long as it doesn’t hurt mankind” mentality. Nowadays, goodness depends on the culture and everyone is free to make any sort of decision they want to.
Some ethical theories claim that man is completely egotistical, and will always act on that. Others claim that only through caring can we fulfill our beliefs. But caring about everything leads us nowhere.
My answer for all of this is Total Depravity and Christ’s Grace. Yes, every single one of us is born with a sin filled heart. This does not mean we can’t be constantly transformed by the grace of God.
Women in the Workforce
My paper is about the Ethics of Caring and women in the workforce. This is an ethical theory created by women in the 1970s to now that explores the differences between men’s and women’s ethics. Professor Gilligan spoke about an idea she had called Difference Feminism:
Difference Feminism is not like equality feminism, where women try to be more and more like men. Equality feminism is backfiring in our current generation. Girls are climbing up the work place by becoming like men and losing their “voices” in the process. In contrast difference feminism embraces the real dissimilarities between men and women. These differences are not based on mere sociological or biological characteristics, but are physiologically grounded.
–my paper
The corporate world was completely structured by men. I’m not saying that is a bad thing, since men are the ones who are to go out and toil:
Cursed is the ground because of you;
through painful toil you will eat food from it
all the days of your life.
18 It will produce thorns and thistles for you,
and you will eat the plants of the field.
19 By the sweat of your brow
you will eat your food—Genesis 3
through painful toil you will eat food from it
all the days of your life.
18 It will produce thorns and thistles for you,
and you will eat the plants of the field.
19 By the sweat of your brow
you will eat your food—Genesis 3
In 2009, 46% of workers in the United States were women. That number is increasing each year. They are being thrown into the man’s world of business. Instead of growing and learning from this, most male dominated companies seem to pretend the women are men (except management positions are excluded). The problem is, women do not think the way men do. Also, the Bible says a man is to be head over his wife, not every man over every woman.
Instead of turning into men, women should help transform the working environment. After all, it’s a woman’s job to be a helper for her husband, and a single woman’s job to change the world for Christ. Transformation only happens through justice and compassion. I’m not asking women to turn their workplace into a gossip hall, but they can add their own unique gifts, like attention to detail and compassion, to improve the work environment.
Ignoring Difference Feminism can have even worse effects on women. Women don’t have any problems getting jobs now, but they are still trained to think like men. It’s one thing to be equal to men; it’s another thing to be exactly the same. Women shouldn’t be upset when there are more men in a certain field of work. We were all made to do different things. What women should be upset about is when they see their friends behave like men. Women have amazing gifts of sharing compassion with others. We can’t lose that when we join the workforce. We can’t be afraid to speak up.
The woman from Proverbs considers a field then buys it. Looks like men aren’t the only ones to toil in a field. Notice it doesn’t mention any thorns involved. ;)
Thursday, February 3, 2011
Welcome to my blog on love, hope, loneliness, and peace
It is a truth universally acknowledged that a single man in possession of a good fortune must be in want of a wife.
However little known the feelings or views of such a man may be on his first entering a neighborhood, this truth is so well fixed in the minds of the surrounding families, that he is considered as the rightful property of some one or other of their daughters.--Jane Austen
What is love?
Even though 1796 was the date Jane Austen first began writing her best known work, it is still relevant today.
Why? You may ask. Because from the very first paragraphs, we realize the entire book revolves around a theme pertinent to everyone, whether male or female, single or already wed. It is based on relationships. Relationships of any kind are ultimately built on love. Love seeks to understand the human character better. We want to know more and more about the people we love. And God is love. The more we understand God and who He is, the better we as Christians can understand each other.
Christ, our Husband, is conquering the world. This is the real truth universally proclaimed by creation, including every single person out there, whether they know it or not.
First Impressions
Pride and Prejudice wasn’t published till 1813, but when Austen first began it she gave it the name First Impressions.
As Christians, we must be careful of our first impressions. Is it the very first act we see someone do or say, that we should be judging them on?
This is how Christ is described in Isaiah 11:3-4
He will not judge by what he sees with his eyes,
or decide by what he hears with his ears;
4 but with righteousness he will judge the needy,
with justice he will give decisions for the poor of the earth.
If we are talking about non-Christians, we obviously need to watch out for whom we hang out with, but God is our judge for that.
When it comes to our sisters and brothers in Christ, we must have caution. We are so quick to point out what we don’t like about people, especially ones we don’t know well. Remember what my definition of love is, though? Love seeks to understand others better and glorify each other. If God knows the number of the hairs on our head, how come we don’t even talk to everyone at our church?
However little known the feelings or views of such a man may be on his first entering a neighborhood, this truth is so well fixed in the minds of the surrounding families, that he is considered as the rightful property of some one or other of their daughters.--Jane Austen
What is love?
Even though 1796 was the date Jane Austen first began writing her best known work, it is still relevant today.
Why? You may ask. Because from the very first paragraphs, we realize the entire book revolves around a theme pertinent to everyone, whether male or female, single or already wed. It is based on relationships. Relationships of any kind are ultimately built on love. Love seeks to understand the human character better. We want to know more and more about the people we love. And God is love. The more we understand God and who He is, the better we as Christians can understand each other.
Christ, our Husband, is conquering the world. This is the real truth universally proclaimed by creation, including every single person out there, whether they know it or not.
First Impressions
Pride and Prejudice wasn’t published till 1813, but when Austen first began it she gave it the name First Impressions.
As Christians, we must be careful of our first impressions. Is it the very first act we see someone do or say, that we should be judging them on?
This is how Christ is described in Isaiah 11:3-4
He will not judge by what he sees with his eyes,
or decide by what he hears with his ears;
4 but with righteousness he will judge the needy,
with justice he will give decisions for the poor of the earth.
If we are talking about non-Christians, we obviously need to watch out for whom we hang out with, but God is our judge for that.
When it comes to our sisters and brothers in Christ, we must have caution. We are so quick to point out what we don’t like about people, especially ones we don’t know well. Remember what my definition of love is, though? Love seeks to understand others better and glorify each other. If God knows the number of the hairs on our head, how come we don’t even talk to everyone at our church?
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